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5/02/06
Fatherlessness: The Root Cause
The link between crime and fatherlessness
is astonishing.
By Dave Kopel, Independence Institute
Roger Clegg’s article
detailing the continuing rise in illegitimacy rates is terrible
news not just for the children themselves, but for every
potential crime victim in America. For all the talk about
the complexities of the “root causes” of crime, there is
one root cause which overwhelms all the rest: fatherlessness.
- As Pat Moynihan wrote in 1965: “From the wild Irish
slums of the nineteenth-century Eastern seaboard to the
riot-torn suburbs of Los Angeles, there is one unmistakable
lesson in American history: A community that allows a
large number of young men to grow up in broken families,
dominated by women, never acquiring a stable relationship
to male authority, never acquiring any rational expectations
about the future — that community asks for and gets chaos…
[In such a society] crime, violence, unrest, unrestrained
lashing out the whole social structure — these are not
only to be expected, they are virtually inevitable.”
- A Detroit study found that about 70 percent of juvenile
homicide perpetrators did not live with both parents.
Another study found that of girls committed to the California
Youth Authority (for serious delinquents), 93 percent
came from non-intact homes. Nationally, seventy percent
of youths incarcerated in state reform institutions come
from single-parent or no-parent homes. A survey of juvenile
delinquents in state custody in Wisconsin found that fewer
than 1/6 came from intact families; over two-fifths were
illegitimate.
- Said one counselor at a juvenile detention facility
in California: “You find a gang member who comes from
a complete nuclear family, a kid who has never been exposed
[to] any kind of abuse, I’d like to meet him… a real gangbanger
who comes from a happy, balanced home, who’s got a good
opinion himself. I don’t think that kid exists.”
- Young black males from single-parent families are twice
as likely to engage in crime as young black males from
two-parent families. If the single-parent family is in
a neighborhood with a large number of other single-parent
families, the odds of the young man becoming involved
in crime are tripled. These findings are based on a study
conducted for the Department of Health and Human Services
by M. Anne Hill and June O’Neill of Baruch College. The
study held constant all socioeconomic variables (such
as income, parental education, or urban setting) other
than single parenthood.
- Crime has often been thought to be a problem of race
or poverty, since poor people and racial minorities comprise
a larger portion of the violent criminal population than
of the population as a whole. But in fact, the causal
link between fatherlessness and crime “is so strong that
controlling for family configuration erases the relationship
between race and crime and between low income and crime,”
as Barbara Dafoe Whitehead noted in her famous “Dan Quayle
was Right” article.
- William Niskanen, chairman of the Cato Institute, observes
that most variables that are said to determine the crime
rate have not changed since 1960. Male unemployment, the
poverty rate, and the percentage of church members has
stayed approximately the same. Urbanization has increased
slightly but hardly enough to explain crime search. Since
1960, real personal income per capita doubled, and so
has the number of police per capita. “The one condition
that has changed substantially,” Niskanen writes, “is
the percentage of births [to] single mothers, increasing
to 5 percent in 1960 [and] to 28 percent in 1991.” (And,
as Clegg explains, to an even higher rate in 1999.)
- There is another association between illegitimacy and
crime: unwed fathers are more likely to commit crimes
than are married fathers. If you see two young men walking
towards you on a lonely, dark street, you may start to
worry. But if one of the men is holding the hand of a
small child, your worries vanish. Marriage and mating
really do civilize men, but mere sex and reproduction
do not.
- Although misguided welfare policies helped spur the
rise in illegitimacy, the continued growth in illegitimacy,
notwithstanding welfare reform in 1996, suggests a widespread
breakdown in social mores, extending far beyond the ranks
of welfare recipients. How to fix that problem is the
most important question for persons who care about crime
control in the long run. Compared to the disaster of illegitimacy,
almost everything else on today’s “anti-crime” agenda
is a trivial distraction.
- Speaking at the 1999 NRA Convention in Denver, the late
Vikki Buckley (Colorado’s Secretary of State) brought
the crowd to its feet when she explained: “Those who would
run the NRA out of town need to look at our own children
who are engaging in irresponsible sex and having children
they cannot take care of. Such irresponsible sex is a
new age hate crime — raise as much heck about that as
you do the NRA and you will save more lives in 5 years
than are taken with guns in a century.”
- Citations for the material in this article can be
found in Kopel’s book Guns: Who Should Have Them? (Prometheus
Books, 1995).
Kids' view
of divorce influences mental state
March 09, 2004
- NEW YORK (Reuters Health)--An adolescent's attitude
toward parental divorce has a profound impact on his or
her mental health, researchers suggest. They believe parents
can do much to help their children maintain healthier,
less negative views of the divorce process.
- Children who experience feelings of guilt and isolation
during and after divorce have "increased symptoms of anxiety
and depression," note Dr. Elizabeth Mazur of Eastern Kentucky
University in Richmond, Kentucky, and colleagues at Arizona
State University in Tempe. Their findings were published
in a recent issue of the journal Child Development.
- The authors conducted psychological interviews with
355 children, ages nine to 12, whose parents had divorced
within the previous two years.
- The investigators found that children who had very negative
views regarding the divorce process had higher rates of
depression, anxiety, isolation and 'acting out' behaviors
compared with children with more positive reactions. This
trend was especially strong among older children aged
11 to 12, the authors add.
- The researchers point out that parental behaviors and
changes in the home environment encourage negative attitudes
linked to divorce. "Parental depression, interparental
arguments, reduced contact with ... the nonresidential
parent, and a (post-divorce) decline in the standard of
living" can help foster negative attitudes, according
to Mazur and colleagues.
- The authors explain that children who experience divorce
as a series of emotionally disturbing parental arguments
and manipulative behaviors tend to develop low self-esteem
and a propensity to blame themselves for their own and
their parents' unhappiness. These emotions trigger 'isolating'
behaviors - where the child does "not seek comfort or
assistance from supportive others, leading to ... sadness
or anger," they add.
- Mazur's team recommends that divorcing parents work
hard to reduce levels of conflict, open argument, and
loss of parent-child contact. They believe these types
of controls will help children maintain self-esteem and
"buffer the effects of stressful divorce events."
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